Sometimes i wonder, what does it takes to build a relationship? Be it friends, your spouse, your parents, your children or even your co-worker? Of all things that matter, i believe most explanations would fall under the word - TRUST. But how truthful can we be?
Most of the time, we plunged into our own deceptions, into lies, into doubts... Relationship is a complication. A mind game that we play among ourselves. For instance, if a friend would lie to you on the smallest matter, perhaps when u found out...and even though to you, it may seem like something small...you would ask yourself...why would someone lie over such trivial matter? It may not have mattered to you, but perhaps to them...it does; why would they even bother if it does not? Questions...and more questions...perhaps its just human....to lie is to make life happier. A shroud of grey may sometimes be...intriguing.
If it took my 30 years to understand this simple life philosophy, i suppose i better make a huge mental note and stick it permanently within my conscious mind. Often times, to think back...on a self-reflective note...i do that too...i'm gonna give up playing saint here, but mostly we do care about how people look at us and feel about us.
I can keep spinning forever on this...but as of now, i think i'm just gonna conclude...people lie for very good reasons, and often times...it might be for an even greater cause. As long as it does not cause us any harm in any way, ignorance can be ...bliss.
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